Learn to distinguish sex from love

Modern culture has taught us that sex and love are two different things. But not all know how to distinguish them.


At first glance, it is generally not worth the attention problem, but small problems always underlie much trouble. People have got too much freedom for their feelings, but it just didn't work. On the one hand, the growing percentage of disintegrating marriages, on the other - constantly forming new alliances, the number of which in the life of modern man is already possible to count by tens.




In the old days of civil marriages (i.e. marriages without any registration) were not welcome. And to enter into a formal marriage was not as easy as it is now: it was always preceded by a long period of courtship and engagement, during which the pair were well known to each other. Now you can do anything. There are pairs that are formed solely for the sake of sex.




Each partner knows that he / she is not bound, and maybe how to have sex on the side, and at any moment to leave without explanation. But this, of course, has no relation to the high feeling of love, the time for which has not yet come. At the same time many take for love is sexual attraction. If people all like the appearance attracts, it is possible to fall in love, even knowing nothing about it, and the feelings will go on increasing.




But the age of this love to a maximum of 6-9 months. After that, the passion disappears or it may switch to someone else. Some, however, during this time, able to marry and as a result turn out to be connected with a perfect stranger in all respects by the partner. Of course, the marriage falls apart sooner or later or saved on the background of extra-marital relationships.




Everyone talked about how different men's attitudes to sex and love. Until that is different, that unfree man novel twists on the side without any remorse, saying that it's just sex, not love. Yes and truly loving woman will surely forgive and understand, even if it all comes out.




After a time, the man discovers that love is probably associates it with a new mistress, but at the same time to abandon the old in no hurry. In the end, if he ever feels the Union is purely formal in nature, and that difference has it or not, you're not. In both cases, the man is right. And who will condemn? The logic is obvious.




What is the difference between sexual attraction and love, passion and love are, and the difference is big, no doubt. But only very smart or very experienced people are able to understand yourself so that immediately the difference to determine. Perhaps we can say that the faster fall in love and the sooner you enter the stage of sexual relations, the more chances it will have to be short-lived passion. Slowly unwinding feelings, starting with friendship, respect or admiration, on the contrary, can be a gorgeous wedding and a happy marriage. Every person consists of the external image and internal content. One inseparable from the other, and to love your inner essence is always much harder than one appearance.

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Ivona

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