How to get rid of jealousy?

It seemed in theory, the answer to this question is simple: in order to get rid of jealousy, we should not be jealous. But in practice it turns out completely differently, because people quite doubtful creation.


There are, of course, cases when jealousy has every reason to be, but more often, still, it appears absolutely nowhere: you, why so late? with whom are you been? why do you smell of women's perfume? who is this girl, who has just greeted you?




Good jealousy or not is hard to answer, but what is "evil" feeling affects the relationship itself is destructive - you can say for sure. From this it follows that we need to work to deal with this small "blemish".




For starters, before asking "stupid" questions her lover, try to calmly ponder, and whether or not you have every reason to think so. Perhaps the reason for your jealousy to yourself?




Not be amiss to find a new job that will distract at the right moment you from bad thoughts and tune in a positive way. Who knows, maybe in a bad mood, cause your jealous.




Try to talk with your partner to talk. After all, jealousy is also a feature of each person. Some easy to respond to some things, while others come in a frenzy from a single trace of them. The main thing to say than "de facto", not the traces of the crime, and later (after a day or two), explaining that make you feel good and why.




Remember, true love gives freedom, and do not put your beloved in a "Golden cage". Love is not ourselves, but first and foremost the person next to you, so respect his personal space.

Author:

Matilda Stoss

women's web magazine