How much would the authors of the film "don't be born beautiful" not persuaded us that the main quality working girls is hard work, intelligence, and kindness, in fact, when the merits are equal, the managers would prefer to hire rather spectacular employee than ugly.
The fact that most of us are visual learners, and we like to see around themselves harmonious faces, figures. Beautiful women are more visible, they are easier to remember. People with pleasant appearance is often attributed positive traits - kindness, sociability, ability to get along with people. In addition, it is believed that if a person is beautiful, it is not only a gift of nature, but the result of his own efforts, which is also a matter of respect.
This is not a mere allegation: scientists have found that "beauties" get paid 15% more than their unattractive counterparts.
Without complexes!
What to do if fate gave you the face and figure of Angelina Jolie?
Appearance - this perception, but it can be managed. Beautiful women are more likely to believe in yourself. Why! They did not suffer from an inferiority complex, don't get depressed, comparing yourself with others. And confidence is priceless at work. Nobody wants to deal with someone who doubts their abilities, capabilities, knowledge that is afraid to take responsibility.
So the first thing you need to impress your boss: you are a very good specialist. And if you don't know something, you are ready to learn.
How to achieve this? Ways to become self-confident, a lot. Choose any - work. You can go to the external behavior, then the internal state of the "adjusted". Pay attention to your posture. Do not stoop or you, even well aware of the issue, will look like a man unsure of his knowledge. Deployed shoulders and lifted her chin up, will add weight to your actions and words. Talking with a person, be it your boss, employee or client, look at the speaker show interest in what he tells you, and ask questions. During the conversation, don't treat your nails, don't study with a bored look some object in the window, not turning anything in his hands. You must learn to walk firm step, to find a flying gait and don't look now and then at his feet.
But the main trick is to know what is unknown to others. Make yourself indispensable in the eyes of the boss. Let's say you need to leave, and the boss ordered to transfer the site to another employee. You honestly telling her what to do, so you are not accused of concealing information. And here is some subtlety, know-how foul it is not necessary. As a result of work on your site will be performed, but without the Shine, as do you.
"The models are not to worry! "
Once a very "cool" store took on the post of sales girls with model looks. ... Suffered heavy losses. Buyers, comparing himself with beautiful women, didn't like myself and, of course, do not buy a product, which, as they thought, "im not going". Then management has replaced half of the staff friendly, well-groomed girls normal appearance. And it turned out that they have contact buyers. The survey found: people think that beauty took here for long legs, and "girl next door" hold for competence.
Pleasant appearance today is average natural data, grooming (as person monitors a condition of the skin, the hair, makeup and style (clothes, cleanliness, and adequacy).
How to achieve this? Today, it is perhaps no need to convince them that need to take a shower twice a day. What you need to track in order to avoid bad breath. But this is not enough. Spend the money on a good hairdresser to your head always looked neat. If you don't know what kind of clothes suits you, ask the person possessing good taste, go with your shopping and update your wardrobe. Might just happen that you dress in accordance with age or position which you occupy. For example, you are young and prefer "solid" jackets, boring long skirts. Or on the contrary, occupy an important position, and wearing plastic jewelry and "torn" jeans. Women whose jobs are associated with Executive functions, who works with clients must have a pleasant appearance. But even if you are a system administrator or accountant, you should be neat, clean and well-groomed.
And a smile - without a doubt!
What else gives every appearance charm is the energy, the enthusiasm, the fire in his eyes. One of my friends, who came from Canada, said that local women are not distinguished beauty - they are narrow-minded, long-faced, with converging upper lip. But when you start to communicate with you, they seem charming. Friendly message, easy smile, a sincere interest in the other person - and you are drowning in a sea of their charm. The same effect is produced French lady when its more than a modest external data, they won the right to be considered the most beautiful women.
A sincere smile adorns any appearance. From "duty", it is distinguished by duration. Universal smile flashes quickly and as rapidly extinguished. This slowly spreads over his face as if rising from the depths of my heart.
How to achieve this? We all are in a state where "work tired, routine sucked, depressa stuck". But remember that Napoleon his greatest strength was considered the ability to control their own mood. Mentally thank your work - at least for the fact that it gives you a livelihood, allows you to communicate with others, to participate in some common cause... And smile! Now think: is it such a charming fellow head will not raise the salary?
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