5 rules for productive dialogue

Sometimes to communicate with your beloved man is a tough. Whether the difficulties of translation is to blame, whether magnetic storms... How in that case to find a common language? Let's find out.



Listen and do not interrupt


Actually it's not so easy as you think. The ability to listen (and hear) you need to learn. Be patient! Next time when you want to interrupt the man off - mentally count to five and let him finish.




To speak for myself




Instead of blaming men use tactics wishes and suggestions. For example, tell me how you need his help and support, not kidasa him with the words: You are irresponsible lazy!





Not to attack


Aggressive methods (screaming and threats), believe me, nothing good from men will not succeed, will only cause a response is protective. Remember, you are allies, not enemies.




To play by the rules




Reproaches, accusations and attempts to arouse a partner guilt - like forbidden techniques ultimately only add to the confusion of the sexes. Try to avoid them in dealing with a man, if you want to build your relationship, not destroy them.





To talk about their feelings


What troubles you? What is annoying you and hurt your feelings? - Learn open (and most importantly - tactfully) to share their experiences with the man. He cannot read your mind and unravel desires, right?

Source:

Cosmopolitan

women's web magazine