When a boy of twenty talks about what the "right" woman must be very slim, it is, in principle, of course. Healthy young girls, as a rule, stroyeniye, and like always drawn to like. It would have been strange if the boys were attracted to Mature women.When you see the audience in the mass of "singing" voices spinning in her head, "big brother", that is, mass media and adherents of the beauty industry, is sad. The audience thinks that says regardless of the media pump. But as it is not.
Not long ago, a "former fat" argued with me that the standards of beauty are spread beauty industry, it is also a myth. Actually, "real women" sincerely, themselves and voluntarily kill himself against the wall, if the store they had not crossed the forty-sixth the size.
Now let's see: what is "thick"? When aunt under two hundred pounds, odilio puffing, spreads backwards on passamani in the subway? No, brothers. Oddly enough, "thick" - when it has not crossed that the forty-sixth the size. Forty-eighth - limit, already urgent need to do something".
To do "something", of course, necessary. For a start look around. Oh, what a woman walk down our streets?
The average capability that is not glamorous Ukrainian, mother and worker, who eats without vypendrezhnaya ploys soup and dumplings, that is, what eats her family, husband and children, which gave birth a couple of times and works five days a week and the gym she is in the country - it is often the fifties. Big ass, cushions on the back, broad shoulders and cellulite.
Nothing terrible. Actually, Slavic women always look like this. Always is, say, five hundred years ago. Modern "canonical" beauty those five hundred years ago to the mid-twentieth century would cause the viewer a feeling of deep bewilderment and pity. Remember, as Tolstoy describes the beautiful Ellen. "War and peace". Full shoulders, full chest, and the de, and the PE. Female this Ellen, of course, but then the standards of beauty. Well, by the standards of "beauty" and it was female... and not asexual something with bulging eyes and a hot laptop in clumsy paws.
You can also look erotic postcards 19th-early 20th century. In short, the ancestors would not have understood. Okay, we now live in other standards. The current men, if we are to believe the media, able to perceive the body solely for the standards of a teenage girl. Forty-eighth the size is a fat cow and basebase".
Well, where we took these notorious "standards"? What information from the outside gets a modern woman?
She is from twenty-five to thirty, and she wants to buy the thing for the summer. Presented? Now the average woman came to the clothing store. Some "Mango". It met both native and immediately said that "we have only to forty-eighth, we focused on young people! " Feeling the ancient old woman, she decided not to give up, is in a large shopping center.
Each city has such a large shopping centre, full of Turkish clothes a La "real Italy". And here's a woman roam up and down the floors, and everywhere met her twenty years of the little mermaid, and bewilderment clap eyes: the fiftieth, fifty-second? We therefore do not trade!
In expensive branded shops to go the less sense, so she goes to the flea market. A flea market is a democratic, where all dimensions are. She will sell jerseys "something", which in a month will turn into a doormat. Maybe the women will finally fall in self-esteem. And the direct road to it then in store for fat people, some "Big people". Buy rug floral with holes for arms.
At home, she would sit on the couch, turn on the TV, it will show some film flat tancabesti aunts in the lead roles. The magazine for women breaks out another statesa "Disgraceful and capability that is not glamorous," and the magazine "Fashion and pattern" will publish a series of models "To complete" collection will demonstrate ladies with the shape that our heroine was in tenth grade.
If ladies problems on the personal front, she may believe that there is only a wall to commit suicide. Because "fake" woman thick, some great minds do strange conclusion that this aunt unhappy. It certainly changes the husband. With a slender girl, beauty and social climber.
Somehow in the course of another strange standard: the stout woman necessarily housewife or unable to find a well-paid job. The more career to do. Now, husband. Changes, understand, and then walks away and leaves her alone with snotty kids, and now she is setting this on the ashes, fat and unhappy and crying. And she's from the TV to say:
Itself to blame!
And where did the husband? He went to slender Gazelle with the prospect of career growth? As it is not so. Why the hell did he need this career Gazelle? She has her eye on her boyfriend, the same kind of ambitious and athlete, as she. And her husband was walking with the same native fiftieth the size, only the size of him, maybe hysteria not swearing and filthy robe in front of him all this time.
Not in shape, so the matter is.
Because "problems on the personal front" does not depend on the size of the clothes, but solely from the size of cockroaches.
The "canonical" beauties as well as missing and cockroaches, and problems. "The feeling that the clothes are sewn not on women, but on a spherical horse in vacuum. Me again hinted at the "Children's world" - complained to me one weightless lady. On the personal front, they have the same things in different ways.
The essence of a great adventure that made beauty industry is that if problems happen in life slim Gazelle size forty-four a lot of reasons. From too great mind to household alcoholism. But if we are talking about a woman "average" forty-eighth here to the public for some reason everything is clear: the problem because she is ugly, horrible, impossible thick! And even household alcoholism is also from this. People change seats cause and effect.
And I believe that if a woman would "get him", then it all will work out: and will podalic super-duper money, and sellers of clothing stores in unison will make her an eighty percent discount on the entire range, and great princes together bridle their horses to stand on guard under her gate.
And after such psychological pressure someone wonders why women suffer bulimia, anorexia? Meanwhile, there is nothing wrong to be who you are. Nothing wrong in being different - but by their own will. The renewal should bring joy. If all you get is misery and depression, then your problem is in something else. Not there for you, sister.
And I after the second birth went on shaping. Although, by and large, any difference to me: the fifties, forty-eighth, the fifty-fourth General my present? Earrings Gypsy portion, the skirt longer, but that the colors and that style of "sun" and forward. Ride, I assure you. "A vivid personality" will be called. Another thing - who is the owner of THIS body? I - or cockroaches? I think - I.
The main thing that was not that your body dispose aunt from magazines and sellers from shops. Your body is not their business.
Source:
Women's educational club
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