To confess in love: why we shouldn't do it first

The active side is male. At least we want to be. To a man first showed signs of attention, called, invited to dates and confessed passionate to you feelings.


Today, when women almost every day becoming stronger and stronger, when trying to prove to everyone, and men in the first place, what have equal rights with them, everything changes. Changing social roles of men and women, changing notions of strong and weak field as such, changing attitudes about what should and should not do.




A love - affair, of course, voluntary. Sometimes you want every second to tell him what he is wonderful, smart, sexy, beautiful - simply the best in the world man. But it's not about that. And on the very first Declaration of love, to hurry you still do not hurry. The reasons for this are several.




Probably most of us are mothers and grandmothers all my childhood and teenage years were told that the man is the head of the family. And usually it was his decision is most important. It is his opinion should listen to the rest of the family. Consequently, in such a romantic question, as a Declaration of love, the main should be it.




Once I after a short acquaintance with the man said and confessed to him that I really love. It seemed to me that he should rejoice, because I also saw his interest in his person. But man, probably scared that he should be with me, think about me, to meet me. In response, he muttered that he cannot do anything, I promise, but I told him too, of course, love. Our relationship fell apart before it really started. One conclusion: until you are 100% sure of his sincere feelings, shut up. More precisely, does not tell us now that the days and nights you only think about it. 't appreciate it.




- Agree that you often think: "what's he going to think of me? ". Of course, dependence on someone else's opinion - not a good trait for many people, but in this situation, this question itself, will not rush you with recognition.




- If you are confident in their deep feelings for the man, but, thinking of the day-to-day the scene of her declarations of love, can't find the right words, even afraid of his reaction, and in this case, do not rush. So not the time. To say " I love it with a light heart. Nothing shall you oppress. The time will come and you will understand what to say to your loved one about your feelings - it's natural.




"Are you afraid that you will not understand. The reason, perhaps, to some extent, children and stupid, but it exists. And stops many girls from candid confessions.




But in General, you should do as you feel. We need to feel and my heart, because to love on schedule, a predetermined plan is stupid. And perhaps impossible. By the way, the old truth that it is better to regret and be done, than to regret not make, has not been canceled. Besides, nowadays you can hardly wait for Prince on a white horse, which, as we bow our knee and holding your hand, will confess their love to call his wife. So if you think that you need to tell the first man about your feelings, tell me. And even if his reaction't make you happy, you will quickly learn whether you have joint a happy future, or we have to learn to live without it.

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