All men and women are divided into three groups. First consider vibrator absolutely useless (and sometimes shameful) the subject, which will never replace a real male member. The latter are in the boundary condition, like and taste like, but can't overcome shyness and to overcome stereotypes. And finally, the third group is sexually wild people who have already tried the vibrator and find it fun and useful toy.What to do if your family has another member (sorry for the pun) is a Dildo or vibrator? As it can be used in sexual games? How men react to the emergence of "artificial competitor"?
Who is the initiator?
It is generally believed that the vibrator is exclusively female sex device. Say, every single woman buys a vibrator to tame his libido until you have a permanent partner. This is partly true.
But the sellers of sex shops stubbornly say, increasingly vibrators buy a pair.
So who in your family had the bright idea to use the vibrator in sex games?
Option 1. Let's assume you and he already have (as a pleasant heritage after living alone).
To the reaction husband was adequate, do not let the husband found the vibrator by accident. Otherwise a man may become upset and decides that does not satisfy you in bed. Until he learned all the pros of this toy, it will be a long time to wonder what this artificial, buzzing subject better this male phallus.
Therefore, before formally introducing her husband with a vibrator, find out:
- Does he like to watch you masturbate?
- If he gets the pleasure of prostate massage?
- Does the idea of double penetration?
- He would like to try in sex something new that will bring pleasure to both of you?
If at least one question you will get a positive response means the husband and the vibrator is ready to cooperate!
Version 2. Suppose, the idea is to get a vibrator came up with your man. It's great because it seeks to diversify marital sex. If you're for, then go together in a sex-shop and choose what you like.
What you need to look for when buying?
Decide what you want to buy a vibrator or Dildo? The Dildo is an analogue of the penis, which simulates the appearance and functional features. A vibrator is the same Dildo is only equipped with a vibrating device.
Decide for what kind of sex you are buying a toy? For anal sex will fit a smooth model, small vibrators (about 10 cm) suitable for stimulation of the clitoris, double dildos or vibrators simultaneously stimulate the anal and vaginal area.
For sex in water, you should choose a waterproof model (which, incidentally, will deliver a lot of fun man with the stimulation of the anus in the water). Such vibrators are often disguised as a toy ducks or fish.
How to use a vibrator in sexual games?
- Manipulation of the vibrator (Pat, Pat) give a new sensation for both partners. Light vibration perfectly stimulates the erogenous zones, affecting the nerve endings throughout the body. Both men and women pleasant touch the vibrator to the neck, chest, belly, inner thigh, genitals and anus.
Women will be useful to examine their own sexual response in the presence of the men and with his direct participation. So the man will be better to understand what movements do you like, what areas need to be promoted, what the pace is faster brings you to orgasm.
The vibrator will be useful to you in any case: sex with a partner or sex alone, anal, or vaginal sex.
"A man can receive at least two kinds of physical pleasure when using the vibrator.
First, double penetration, his penis will shrink much stronger and more intense.
Secondly, if he will trust you and will allow you to do a prostate massage, you will get a brighter orgasm (unfortunately, not all men can overcome the stereotype that anal sex is a sign of homosexuality). About the technique of prostate massage we wrote here, but the use of a vibrator will simplify and enrich this process!
Don't forget also that a man loves eyes! He will be very pleased to see how you enjoy playing with a vibrator.
What will you get?
- First, make cherished female fantasy MGM only ethically acceptable option.
- Second, double the effect of all kinds of sex, including cunnilingus.
- Thirdly, you will improve your sexual technique, and your man will appreciate you for emancipation and love sex.
- Fourthly, the vibrator will be your legal accessory and don't need it anymore to hide from the prying eyes of her husband! sex toy, which is designed not to supplant tender human relationships and make them stronger.
Your husband categorically unpleasant that you use a vibrator with him? Then it is better not to do it. If you do not want to use a vibrator (or do it when the husband) - feel free to tell him about it. In sex, confidence is important, to adapt to the partner's need, only if you want it.
Vibrators: everything you wanted to know
Source:
Encyclopedia of women's life
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