"Girl, you have lost your card! Whose on her phone? "My, of course. I hope that the most beautiful girl in this city today give me a call! " Sounds romantic, doesn't it? There are other options. "We have a lot in common. It is destiny". "I bought pasta, and what to do with them - can't imagine... And you, I'll always be with you to consult? ". "Your eyes Shine like stars". "I lose control when you smile".
I think this is love? No, it's just that you have just become a victim of pikaper. Or, at least, could it be. What to expect from pikaper and whether you can build with it a serious relationship?
Heroes big sex
The pickup is one of the by-products of the sexual revolution of the sixties. The set of techniques that allow their holder relaxed to get acquainted with different girls and successfully bring them into bed. The classical formulation "Imagine yourself as a lion, who sees a Gazelle. Imagine that you are this Gazelle has eaten. Sarici, respose mane, eat it and go gazelles in Savannah anyway". In this short parable - the whole ideology of pikeperch.
Pikaper vying with each other, teach each other how to develop self-confidence, attractiveness, sociability and fantasy. How to look, talk, compliments, be an attentive listener and a caring gentleman... until, as she will be in bed. While the girl in the calculation. Supposedly any "Femina" wants, but silent, and the task of pikaper to convince the beauty to surrender to him immediately.
Girls pikaper evaluate on a scale - of course, on the basis of appearance. If you look less than 8 points, you will not spend more than three visits. If 9-10 points - pikaper will keep you on a long leash, parallel learning "for balance" with girls easier. And by the way, are you aware of "field reports"? Many famous heroes of great sex is considered sacred duty to share with your friends on the forum, as you are tempted as you are to them happened and what was done to him in bed.
"Who will give them? "will cry in this place indignant female readers. 'll laugh, but "will give a" very, very many. They caught us on the hook of five or six standard techniques. The woman should be of interest to you, to surprise, to listen, to explain that Miss World compared to her sheep, then suddenly move away, lose interest and she will run into the bed. Depressed? The familiar style? Yes, pikaper has wizadry the quintessential experience of the world Lovelace and easy puff brains untrained woman. But we have already prepared for surprises.
Protected!
How to distinguish pikaper from ordinary philanderer or lover boys?
He is predictable: "intrigue-zoom-listen-to cool off in the bed". Does not help - I will repeat. In the same sequence.
He always listens to you, not listening what you say to him.
- If he says he is, then presents itself in the best light - sensitive, romantic, dreaming about the wedding, family and children.
He sees other men as competitors.
- From the first meeting he tells you that you're one and only, the best in the world.
- He always makes you compliments banal and simple.
He flirts with your friends just the same as you.
He constantly touches you like by accident.
He carefully takes open postures, not crossing his arms and legs, widely moved apart legs when sitting, and laying thumbs on the belt.
- He is insincere: unexplainable, but you feel it.
Simple test: talk to him about the women who don't like him, or talk about freedom of sexual desires and relationships. Let me speak. Learn a lot. The main thing is not to interrupt.
Simple protection, as already mentioned, is to not let this makaku to heart. And to the body, too: as soon as he will get, he will lose interest in you. Remember: what would you have asked him to care what you say if it's not "Yes, I agree". To quickly sew pikaper, it is best to ridicule: they fucking don't like to be the object of someone else's fun.
Important - if you really don't want to sleep with him, in any case do not go to his home, not go to a party for his friends, do not swim at night on the deserted beaches and so on. Pycairo expected date to force a girl to have sex, using all methods, in addition to physical violence.
Reminder of pikaper
Gregory Madison, American Evangelist of the pickup, in his book "How to get into bed with the woman of his dreams" writes:
"I don't apologize for their human and male desire. I go through the world without excuses and apologies.
- I donít need you - I need you.
"You can't tell me what to do.
- I never know which woman I will stop, until then, until I made the first serious attempt to possess it, so I don't think any serious woman candidate for the relationship, yet we never slept.
- I do not argue with a woman and not trying to appease. I carefully listen to everything she says, and gently but firmly make the most of what I had planned with her.
- There is no woman so beautiful that she can't be mine.
I never seriously addicted woman who has more problems than me.
Sex with pikaperam
Suppose you decided to try this fruit. Always curious to see whether green grapes, as it is painted. With a probability of 99, 9% - Yes, alas. The task of pikaper not to remain in your memory as the best lover for twenty years, and fill up you in the bed, in order to put in the report check box.
If you are lucky - he carefully will bring you to orgasm - hands, feet, ears, and all the subjects at hand. Articles about the technique of sex in pycairo mass, sexual literacy above average, the notion of cunniling, rimming, Fisting and other miracles have anyone who was acquainted with the "gentleman's set" on any of the major thematic sites.
The problem is one he will try to exhaustion. Written "gently biting the nipples until his partner begins to postanyvat" - will be biting you until you start screaming bad voice. Written passionately to storm the language of the depth of the vagina" - will storm until you sink down to his shoulders. Yes, it's better than a vibrator. But how?
If no luck then, no luck. You are not logged in "top 10" what is it, darling, "not sexualit", so pikaper longs for two things: great haste to finish everything and more you never see. He fulfills all points allotted: grabs ass, kneading the Breasts, pinching the clitoris and in a few minutes sadly asked: "have You already? "
Want to save him good relationships - try honestly to say: "I'm bored", it is not inconceivable that, laughing over the unfortunate seduction, you will become good friends. Do not want - you can get up and leave. You are not to blame, because he was so PI...caper.
And, of course, if you value life and health in any case do not agree to sex without a condom. Given the lifestyle of pikaper, it is possible to pick up not only the classic syphilis, and AIDS, hepatitis and exotic STDs, which were not heard in the district indispensable.
Doctor, is it treated?
What to do if pikaper and cute, sweet and enticing guy? Is it possible to heal and adapt to a normal life? Yes, though not always. Unfortunately, seasoned pikaper, which are easily able to seduce hundreds of girls, with pleasure receive professional deformation.
As the prostitute sees all men as clients, and the policeman in any passer - offender, and these homebrew Casanova eventually begin to perceive women as easy prey. They become mentally impotent, unable to love or long relationship. Without a highly qualified psychologist and months of treatment in these cases is not necessary. Pity the poor man, if you really really want, but you better leave him alone with his problems.
To return to reality has meaning those young people who have pickup not too long ago and did not have time to get a list of victories with three zeros. To return, characteristically, have the same techniques that they they deceive us.
- Do not allow to the body. The more you achieve, the better.
- Do not show interest. Even if you beat in ecstasy from one of his touch let him about it from time to time, no clue.
- Keep in uncertainty. He knows what you need from him. Be gentle, caring, polite, hint at deep feelings.
- Without platitudes. Not to beg, not to lie, not Lisp, not cut, not to make a scene of jealousy, not to talk for hours about themselves and their problems, not to speak of the dreams of the registry office, the family and children in General, do not behave as they expect.
- Not to frighten. Typically, pikaper not confident in themselves and their abilities, too crude joke or a sudden failure can push.
To be honest, especially praise. Something you like about him, once you have decided to save him.
Your task is to cause his confidence. To help (or force) to remove the mask Casanova and show their true feelings. The problem of pikaper that he simply "zazhralis", getting too much of the available sex. And likely considers this activity boring and monotonous, and women - predictable.
Remind him about the lost delights of a chaste relationship. It's nice to walk by the handle, to dance a slow dance, flying kites, kissing on the back row of the cinema, to fall asleep on his shoulder from each other in the night train. How many fun things you can do together to support Dynamo, driving a car, to arrange a photo shoot, to cook rice, to choose and to raise a puppy.
Often pikaper at heart - a teenager stuck in the phase of youth hypersexuality. Fear not, one day he will grow up. Until then, remind him that the boys and the girls can not only play "doctor", but in the war, catch-up and three-dimensional chess.
Be like children - and it is likely you will be able to make pikaper person. Man. Which, incidentally, is able to listen, able to seduce, to create a romantic atmosphere and to have sex every conceivable way - and another that you had no idea.
So if you are sure that it's worth it - go for it!
Pickup men and women: similarities and differences
Author:
Bathan Century
Source:
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