In translation from the Tatar her name sounds like "the morning star". And for many, it has also become synonymous with the highest qualities of the soul of compassion, selflessness, mercy. Meeting with Chulpan Khamatova, star actress and woman, which is most important to feel man.
"One thing is certain: the people I love, always for me will be the higher, more expensive than anything in this life".
In recent years, the main theme of her interview one charity. And meetings with actress assigns reporters not her agent, but the press service established its Foundation. Her obsession is so obvious that creates involuntary doubt: do not turn on whether its maximalism alienation, rejection of those who are not with her?.. But not for shooting came to us a woman without fanatical gleam in his eyes. Tired face, but energetic, decisive step. High heels, jeans and a sharp cap-hood, which is awkward sticky strands of black: yesterday was the play with a topknot. Yesterday she was back and drop: when leaving the scene of the stud slipped over the wire, and pale face partners performance: injury is a real problem for her dynamic role in "the Tales of Shukshin. But this time nothing happened.
We talk with her about life, about people, and in the words of Chulpan no anguish, no exaltation. It is not to see the gullible girl with open eyes, which 12 years ago, loved by the whole country. From edgy and tender teenager, who, beaming, talked about the actor's quest on my happy-friendship-marriage with a classmate, were not, it seems, and track. Seven years of her marriage with actor Ivan Volkov ended rupture, and in the lexicon of Chulpan, mother of two daughters, Arina and ASI, often sounded the word "responsibility". As for the performances-movies-TV shows in Russia and abroad has added the role of leading the program "Wait for me". Then there were the "give life" and establishment of the Foundation "give life", which now helps hundreds of children with oncological and hematological diseases...
Her talent to give respect - and even more than respect. It does not saves the world: actress Chulpan Khamatova simply collects a specific amount on a specific medication for this patient with leukemia Denis or recovering after surgery Pauline. And parallel dancing in a ballet Alla Sigalova "Poor Liza" (the Theatre of Nations). Telling the story of the passion of the only plastic - gestures, body, and intricate movements of modern dance.
- You made this extremely difficult - including physically - play for almost a year. There is a sense that the point set?
Usually I don't do postpriming syndrome, spleen. But with this performance that's exactly what happened. The reason, apparently, in his violent emotion, the strongest amplitude experiences. Because of the words the characters, but there is only movement, the body had to literally rip apart the feelings. And all my nerves were excited to such an extent that, when I again became part of normal life, it turned out that me too much, me too closely. Intense emotions in relationships with friends, with loved ones is not enough. But I think it is temporary, soon everything will return to normal.
Lisa, your character throws beloved, and she is not able to deal with it. Although, by today's standards, it's about the usual divergence men and women. How do you feel today a long happy relationship at all possible?
Increasingly convinced that man and woman are creatures from different planets. Quite different: the molecular composition of the soul, body, perspectives on work, sex, kids. In General, absolute "razminavane". In some sense this is useful: when you just don't understand people (and seemingly, it's so simple), you can always reassure yourself that he is not obliged to understand you. But when he realizes that it is a miracle. In my opinion, a happy marriage is either a unique coincidence of organisms at the biochemical level, or the result of a very complex and time-consuming work of each partner. Doing life together, people get repeated Sundays of love and passion - consciously. And some just live like atoms: starting from one and connecting with others...
- You closer to what position?
- I try to work on myself in the sense that men and women are not obliged to understand each other. Every man is essentially alone. And to be together is a real talent. It can develop if partner has qualities without which you cannot live.
- Family, work, charity work is your life consists of worlds, each of which is able to absorb entirely. What's more helps you to live?
I try not to build that in the first place, and that on the second. As soon as I start to put my life into the scheme, immediately feel: it does not work - is crumbling. So I removed all the priority. One thing is certain: the people I love, always for me will be the higher, more expensive than anything in this life. If something happens, God forbid, with my mom, child or loved one, I'll just drop everything and be there with them. But in normal times and the family, and the theatre, and film involved in the cycle of events, and they, as a planet, spinning in orbit: the one highlighted by the sun, the other... Now the Fund is 90% of my life tomorrow, a new show will take 150% and so everything changes.
"I think I'm a very happy person: I have no feelings of uselessness - neither my life nor my profession".
- Do you know the situation when someone from the family is not supporting you in your work, don't you understand?
But they are not required to understand me, support! Never one person until the end will not be able to understand the other. Never! I would like to see my family... without understanding... just pitied me. Or rather cared about me. But if not, I tell myself that they will see me next time. I try to talk to them, to explain... the difference in our lives. Try to distract yourself from the problem - good profession allows you to do so as to process the backlog of questions in a particular segment of the role. Sometimes I say the text of the heroine, but somewhere in the child suddenly begins to pulsate thought: here it is, the solution is found! And for example, via text Chekhov comes the understanding of your own situation. And then I initially understand that being friends with such a person, like me, is a huge challenge. Difficult to all my relatives, including children, probably. But we are what we are, and we should accept it!
- The birth of your daughter, you said that you want to create for them a special space filled with what you think is important, good music, books... Possible?
- I still strive for it. But I never intended to keep them in an artificial world - just don't want to offer them something that I don't like. They have to coexist with the fact that they see at school or on TV, but they will be where to look, what to compare, to rely on. Yes, we already have this horrible Bratz doll with huge silicone lips... Arina (eldest daughter. - CA. ed.) wanted this doll, and she appeared. But in the evening she still want to listen to books. To question her daughter about whether I like this doll, I said, "I don't, but she likes you, and this is the most important". She went into the bathroom, then came back and said, "why, so you can hurt people". I say "Probably. But you want me to tell you the truth or lied? "No, the truth". It seems to me that she heard that I have a right to their point of view, as it is on your. It is important for me that the child was with me Frank. It is better to discuss and to live difficult times together, than to deny (and he secretly would do differently). Me more understanding.
- In high school you wandered through the woods with a group of students-hippie from their parents you also find understanding?
- There were, of course, collisions: my mother just too afraid for me, because we were gone sometimes for months without any communication. Ripped jeans, jackets, free love, and then - drugs... But mom understood: if you deny the situation gets worse. I probably would have run away from home. Because that life was so much more tempting than usual at school... No, mom was not at all my Hobbies, music, not wove me baubles - and I really wanted to. But still each time she collected my backpack and asked how many pounds of buckwheat and stew I need. And once again I had gone somewhere.
The father was probably even more difficult to accept it?
- Pope by nature an introvert, he just silently watched. Only time we had a serious conflict - when I said that I would be an actress. He year did not talk to me, so my decision over his mind, was a blow. Now we normally communicate. But still, it's not friendship. I'm more her mother's daughter, and my brother Shamil - dad's son. And now I see myself in their daughters and so much forgive them. What is to be done - genetics! (Laughs.) As can be blamed for the shortcomings which were conveyed to the child himself?
- Your name is now inextricably linked with the activities of the charity Foundation for seriously ill children...
- I feel a responsibility to these children. You were probably not that serious to go into it to hold an auction to appear somewhere, something to say... But, apparently, I need to do everything from beginning to end. I think I am a very happy person: I have no feelings of uselessness of my life, my profession, the uselessness of my stay on earth. This is a very powerful platform on which I stand.
- But the work of the Foundation is and experience encounters with suffering...
"I have such a need to suffer. But to defend does not work - after all, if you already love these children and I already know these moms... I say to myself, if only to fear, in General, you can not live!
- What is still more in this case - joy or pain?
"Of course, of happiness, of course. Let's not even talk about those children who recovered and those who are unable to save. Because time passes, and you remember only light episodes associated with humans: some funny text messages, talk, smile - all this remains in the soul alive with fireflies. Although, of course, is very difficult moments.
Doctors who work with severely ill patients in Europe, USA, psychological support,...
And we have psychologists for doctors, for parents. Now I want to create a psychological service for volunteers. This is very important, because young people who come to us, and themselves defenseless. This sensitive, naked soul, and of course, they need help to cope with such injustice of life.
You asked for psychological help?
"Yes, often. There is a fine psychologist, to which I, just that, just go and talk. Of course, this is not a panacea, but when nerves (nerves! ), unable to cope with the situation, inflamed, sometimes fail to understand what is happening. Any little thing, a broken Cup, causes in you a sense of tremendous loss. At this moment need someone who will help to look at the situation from the outside and calm down. And even diary helps. But to not always have the strength.
"Helping others helps you to make sense. What else?
- Love, so much love. In my life there is a new family of doctors and children of volunteers who have become very close friends and I can call even in the middle of the night. Before the common people was not part of my life: I was interested only in the world of art! But now I see such a wealth of such examples fortitude is normal human behavior! - which will not surpass none burned at the stake, Joan of Arc.
- Daughters share this selfless attitude towards the Affairs of the Foundation?
At least they already know that you need to think not only about yourself. They already have girlfriends in hospitals, we talk on the phone, emailing, and my girls know that the disease is not flawed, but temporary. Fortunately, they long remained in a stupor because we come into the house the children in masks.
- To your home?
- (She laughs.) Well, we have a mafia that is one big family. There is another bonus co - creation. A year ago I was doing commercials for our annual concert "give me life! "and together we chose the funny moments. I've seen girls proud mother shares with them his work.
- What book you particularly like to reread daughters?
"Probably, "Pollyanna" By Eleanor Potter. It is a real benefit for those who have no opportunity to address to the psychologist. I close the grateful attitude towards life, which says Potter. I am also happy with my life and so grateful for her! Walking on two legs, dancing... Last summer in London, I got a serious injury: I suddenly stopped going. Couldn't even crawl to a phone to call the doctor! No one would not wish this experience. Sometimes to feel the joy and fullness of life can (and should! only from what you're standing, see, hear. Feel, feel, and generally just live.
Personal business
1975 October 1 was born in Kazan, in the family of engineers. In ten years, was born her brother, Shamil.
in 1992 he Enrolled in the Institute of Finance and Economics, and a few months later departed thence, and entered the Kazan drama school.
1993 Joined the acting Department of GITIS (course Alexei Borodin), where he met Ivan Volkov, three years later Chulpan and Ivan were married.
1997 debut in the film Vadim abdrashitova "the way of the dancer".
1998 actress of the Moscow theatre "Sovremennik", will debut in the role of Pat in the performance of Galina Volchek "Three comrades". The role of Rita in the film Valery Todorovsky "country of the deaf".
1999 Main role in the film Bakhtiyor khudoinazarov "Luna Papa". Plays in the movie "Tuvalu" Veit Helmer (Germany). Later Chulpan will be removed in nine European paintings.
2000 starring role in the play of Alexei Borodin's "the Diary of Anne Frank" (RAMT).
2002 the Birth of the eldest daughter Arina.
2004 the birth of the youngest daughter, ASI. Ivan and Chulpan part. State prize of the Russian Federation for roles in productions of "the Diary of Anne Frank", "Three comrades" and "Mamupapusynasobaku" Nina Chusova (the last two in the theater "Contemporary"), the award "Golden mask", "Hero". Role in the television series "children of the Arbat" Andrei Eshpai. Awarded the title of honoured artist of Russia.
2005 Co-host (along with Igor Kvasha) in the TV program "Wait for me" (First channel). The series Yuri Grymov "Incident of kukockogo", the film Garpastum" Alexei German Jr. Together with actress Dina Korzun has organized a charity concert "give me life" to help children with hematological-Kimi diseases.
2006 "TEFI" for the role of Lara in the series by Alexander Proshkin, "Doctor Zhivago"; November 27, established the Foundation "give life".
2007 Participation in the project of the First channel "Ice age".
2008 Painting "House" Karen Oganesyan and Paper soldier Alexei German Jr. Nine roles in the play "Shukshin Stories" (directed by Alvis Hermanis, the Theatre of Nations), the role of Lisa in the performance Alla Sigalova "Poor Liza" (25, 26 may, the Theatre of Nations).
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