Many believe that now my husband has to wear on my hands. I hasten to disappoint - he never did. But to me, this fact does not upset because I'm afraid of heights. But seriously, of course, he likes the way I look now, but he was never focused on my weight, as it believes that the main thing is what the person is next to him. Actually there is no guarantee that with me tomorrow will not be a trouble. I know people who are bedridden for many years, but this makes them no worse, or better, regardless of how they look. If your partner or husband constantly tells you that you look bad, he may be complex because of their appearance?
Someone will argue that excess weight and disease, accident is not the same. Women can and should control how they look? It is possible, but often we get so tired, nervous, forced to do a thousand things at once and do not even notice that the size of the clothes is growing steadily. I remember very well, as each time was up on the scale, saw the small "gain" and thought that one kilogram is not scary, but the increase is not the end of the world. There are much more important issues. For example, the need to earn money to raise a child, to learn. This policy of appeasement led me to disastrous results, but most importantly I stopped, took himself in hand. And now I will never condemn women large amounts, because no one wakes up, recovered by 20-50 pounds in one night.
My girlfriend reacted to the changes in me philosophically. No, they like much more, as I look, but for them, my weight doesn't change. If you amenitites in size, you will not learn how to make friends better. Of course, there were girls and women, who said that it was time for me to stop when I weighed about 80 pounds, but it is rather familiar. Close friends knew to once again feel comfortable, I need to return to "the weight of dreams".
My mother always thought I should weigh not even 60 and 50 kg, but I listen it, I probably would have finished his loss in the office of the psychiatrist diagnosed with anorexia. Still in the game with pounds of" important while staying. As for my daughter, she was too small (about two years), when I finished losing weight, and had no time to realize "global metamorphosis" that occurred to me. It is often "check" TV reporters and journalists on the subject of knowledge "women in photography". Should only take me a photo album, all begin to ask: "who is this? " The first time she answered quite logical: "Aunt", but after hearing the explanation that this mom to weight loss, she decided not to go and now just shy lowers his eyes when he realizes what now will be discussed. She associates the concept of "mother" with my current way. For me today is much more important than the belief that she would be proud of what I look like after 15-20 years, when we go with her somewhere together and no one will believe that we are not sisters.
I sometimes don't believe that this whole story happened to me. Sometimes I come to the mirror, and try to remember how I felt, being 60 kg more... and can't. So strange, because I most of my life struggled with excess weight with varying degrees of success, and then for a short period of time in me all seemed to have transformed: fear went away to recover, self-condemnation, criticism, and with them those extra pounds. And I see a new, calmly, as if the way it should be. Of course, I'm not always objective. By themselves are generally very difficult. I sometimes ask my husband: "I thicker than the girl? "and you will receive a startled look and the phrase: "You two times thinner! "although it seems to me that this is not the case. In such moments, I try to come home at night, to get your things out of the closet and remind myself that my size now looks like this.
Recently I conducted a meeting of the forum girls, slimming system "-60", and asked them to talk about what has changed in their life after weight loss, despite the fact that they dropped 10-20 kg, not 60 as I am. All answered the same way. Even with a slight loss of "well-married ladies" we are pleased with the increased attention from the surrounding men. Sometimes it really helps. For example, one girl talked about the pleasant treatment by police after the accident, which in former times it only roughly snapped.
All were unanimous in the opinion that the mirror began to come more often and with pleasure, not with horror run through as before. The attitude in General has improved, I wanted to do something for themselves.
But most importantly - and this feeling personally did not leave me never - have faith in something that is impossible in this life happens, and more often than we think. When I see how changing woman, losing weight by 10-20 pounds, every time I stand in absolute awe, because I know that she tried seemingly everything, hope it nearly left as suddenly something happens, she finds her way and becomes slimmer, more beautiful and happier. Because each achieved goal makes us a little wiser and more successful...
Author:
Mirimanova E.
Source:
Леди@mail.ru
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