The rule of trust. For truly loving marital relationship, trust is vital. Without it, one man becomes suspicious, anxious, and the other gets into the emotional trap: it seems that freedom is lost. So learn to trust not only his beloved (beloved), but also by the relationship.
Rule sincere communication
- a common mistake among honeymooners: it seems that for a happy family life, simply love. But love is not an artificial flower that is not in need of care. She, as a living plant may bloom, and wither. All depends on how we cherish.
Sincere communication for love, like water for plants - it is to survive. Talk to each other about their feelings and desires. Necessarily tell about how you husband (wife) love and cherish - do not be afraid to praise. And don't take good attitude for granted. Thanks!
The rule of giving. To meet a true love, you must first sincerely and unselfishly give a piece of yourself. If you want to receive love, you have to give. And the more you give, the more you get. Love, like a boomerang, always returns. Although not always from the person you gave. But will return a hundredfold! And remember: supply of love we unlimited. And the only way to lose love is to give it to others.
But the problem is that many don't want to give first, they love with reservations: "I'll love you only if you will love me." Wait until someone makes the first move. It's like a musician say, "I'm going to play after the guests begin to dance. True love asks for nothing in return.
The rule touches. Touch is one of the strongest manifestations of love. It breaks barriers and strengthen relationships. To restore the normal atmosphere in the family psychological practice even recommends special training: often hug partner just like that, without a sexual motive; naughty as children; people holding hands like young lovers. By the way, "the disciples" they say it is the most difficult homework in their lives.
When you care for someone touch changes your physiology: reduces stress hormones, relaxes the nervous system, strengthens immunity, improves emotional state. Wise people say: if you gently't hug 7-8 people, you are doomed to disease.
The rule of freedom. If the person you love, give him freedom. Freedom of choice, freedom to live the way he wants, not the way you want it. Of course, it's not easy. But there is no alternative. Not to feel trapped, everyone needs personal space.
Based on the book by Adam Jackson "10 secrets of love".
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