How to make a choice?

Not so long ago, every person had the right of choice, which were deprived of many centuries our ancestors. Of course, freedom of choice is considered one of the most important social achievements of our age, but why more people do not exercise their right, and just float with the current.


Fear to stay out of work

The main, perhaps the reason why we do not have all my own opinion and may not accept the solution, what we have is fear. It is the fear of losing something more important causes us to make a choice. And we refuse to take on such a big responsibility, try to drop it on someone's shoulders. In this case, the main thing to remember is that there is no such thing as correct or not correct choice is your choice.


As of this mental impasse?

First, understand that indecision in making decisions - it is normal.

Secondly, slightly adjust the way of making decisions, weigh the pros and cons and rely on their own intuition.



Permanence or unknown

Any choice ultimately comes down to a choice between invariance (maintaining the status quo of the past) and the unknown (change, step into the future). Step into the unknown gives rise to anxiety, but also gives a chance to find meaning. Selection invariance reduces anxiety, but generates the blame for unrealized possibilities. In minor situations, the new, the unknown is preferred by those who distinguish conscious attitude to life, hardiness, optimism. It seems that those who find the strength to choose an unknown future, have a greater personal resources.

So how can you make the right choice?

1. Sometimes you can just ask yourself " what would I like to do in the moment? Is there any way to avoid the choice of two things, both of which we don't like?

2. You can try to imagine how the specific choice will affect your future. If he does not remove you further from what you dream? From the fact that the main thing for you in life? Maybe not worth wasting time on trifles? Imagine you are walking through the forest, and along the way collect mushrooms. It is important not to forget where you are going, not to get involved.

3. Boredom is an indication that you do not have the power to choose what makes the choice for you. You need to analyze the situation, and not to wait until you leave the boredom. Because then change something it would be too late. Time lost.

4. Look from the point of today's choice for the rest of his life - how it will change with every possible choice?

5. If you do something you do it without delay while things have not taken you aside when to do something important will be much harder.

Source:

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