Friday, October 17, 2014

How to benefit from their shortcomings


How to benefit from their shortcomingsYou probably said that a greedy man to be bad. That laziness is a terrible flaw, but the habit of gossip over lunch is almost a crime. We are not perfect and are accustomed to live with their own shortcomings, but it would be much better if one day they became undeniable dignity.


We have a good news right now from any of your shortcomings, you can benefit greatly.




Sloth





A disadvantage. Loren has the property that destructive force equal only to that of the Apocalypse. It is capable of destroying all our achievements, dreams and plans. It is capable of all of our lives to turn into a modest domain statistics - there was one light, one of many billions, unremarkable citizen.


You can read all the books on success and wealth, but knowledge will remain a theory, if laziness considers each made your move. You can gather a collection of the best books, but a foreign language will remain foreign, if you force yourself to do from time to time. Laziness trying to persuade us to remain at the level at which so relaxed now with these weight, position, wealth, circle of communication. Even if none of the items you do not like.




Dignity.

Any lazy with experience will tell you that "laziness is the engine of progress". And it is absolutely right, if properly distribute the forces which are so lazy and wasting. I know the journalist, which really was too lazy day and night to spend in front of the computer. She worked slowly and without much success. For thirty years, considering their very modest gains, it changed the point of application of effort. And in a couple of years became one of the few copywriters who for one advertising copy paid in dollars with three zeros. It works now-four hours a day - how many are not lazy.


Another terrible lazy once brought the law: only 20% effort bring 80% of the result. Rightly reasoned that these 20% have to spend power, and the rest of the time to carry out their own pleasure. His name was Vilfredo Pareto, and only the truly lazy people can appreciate its opening. Anyone can learn how much time to devote to really desirable things.





Pedantry


A disadvantage.

In childhood you were put rubber bands for hair colors, ranging from red to violet. Was combing dolls five times a day. Tore a page from a notebook and copied all their homework again, if the word has crept blot. And then you grew up, and it turned out that the love of tidiness, order and cleanliness annoying all around to toothache.


You are called a pedant, and more - boring, botanist and grumpy. Colleagues can't stand your thoroughness, friends say that you can't be so serious, and her husband and children are very tired to maintain order in your Kingdom of Perfect Purity.





Dignity. In your character many wonderful qualities that you what entirely was sent to Gen. Attention to detail, punctuality, health care and its surrounding, and the ability to establish order in the hearth of any chaos. Great if all these qualities you can bring to work. In any case, moderate household dust, give a home a little more air and let your desire to organize, to appear in everything from daily planning prior to deciding to make a family tree.


Arrogance




A disadvantage.

In order to become arrogant, it is not necessary to earn billions in free time to flirt with Enrique Iglesias. Among children in the sandbox probably find one that looks at other top-down simply because of the impenetrable confidence: he better. Arrogance is a lack of secondary school principals, senior managers and other "senior", "heads", "managers".


And arrogance on the heels accompanied by beautiful and smart. That's weekdays only Very Important people truly difficult to constantly have to prove their value, to maintain the reputation and try to establish personal life, which forever some misunderstandings: the others are not in a hurry to enroll in fans and servants.





Dignity. If a child feel that you are special, not like the rest, and totally unique, the way it is. You have in this world has its own mission, but once you're a bit wrong, and instead find out what this mission, began to think about its exclusivity and why do you compare yourself with the first counter - although this Queen does not need proof of its power. To benefit from this drawback can be the only way to collect all the confidence, all the pride and hope that the world has prepared you an incredible future, and send it all to achieve the Goal. Large-scale, dizzy, Napoleonic. Consider yourself special? So if you will write in the textbooks!


Isolation




A disadvantage.

With people you hard from big companies wanting to escape. Yes and get them except by accident. Friends resent the lack of attention, the young man clearly does not share your desire all spend the evening at home with the cat and the book, and think that one day you will be completely alone.


Isolation is accompanied by a lot of communication problems. Your career is moving at such a pace, as if in stock you have two hundred years, you don't trust any of the talks or presentations, and it is obvious that to authoritative chairs not grow. But even without all these problems you almost every day is this painful torture to live in society.





Dignity. For centuries the world was divided into introverts and extroverts. The farther you are from the society, the closer to their own inner world, and it is no coincidence. Introverts are more likely to be creative, to Express themselves through art and science. And yet, strangely enough, they are able to give to others the incredible help and support up to sacrifice, if the situation requires. To help quietly, calmly, without grandstanding and placing herself. You have a different way of communicating with the world and people, and noisy parties do not have nothing to do with him. Communicate as inner voice tells you, you with him an enviable understanding.


Excessive curiosity





The lack. Gossip is not good. Even worse poke his nose into other people's business, and from the very childhood you let comments about the nose - which at the Bazaar lost the infamous barbarian. But - does not help. Alien life interest you a lot more private, and you are aware of all changes in the lives of colleagues, relatives, friends, ex-classmates, ex-husbands and ex-classmates husbands.


Gathering information takes a lot of time, and in between these important you're turning secular chronicle. Recently the daughter of Bruce Willis as the paparazzi caught on the streets of Los Angeles with her boyfriend. Paparazzi tried in vain: you could give them much more information.




Dignity.

All of this suggests that you are very interesting people. Absolutely sincerely. Aside from my passion for gossip, you have many advantages - the ability to find a common language to an ability to quickly gain the confidence. Locate a convenient and surrounding the distinction between interest and excessive curiosity.


Former gossip become very good buddies, know how to give correct advice and somehow magically be there when it is so necessary. Believe me, your attention can sometimes be very helpful to those who loses. Just do not waste it in vain: the daughter of Bruce Willis in it is clearly not needed.




Greed





The lack. You just a little. Somewhere the grass is greener, the sun brighter, and the stars closer. Somewhere more possibilities, and your you is never enough. Stress that you are used to bind, but to eat just can't. You little food, money, communication, relationships, sun and stars. This greed to life, which can appear from petty counting pennies and habits hard to save up permanent internal longing, gluttony, fruitless search for his place in the world.


And greed pushes us to change partners as seasonal wardrobe to suffer she wants to be the center of attention and thirst for glory. The greed of many people, but every time she declares itself insatiable and enduring hunger, whatever it touched.





Dignity. Your greed can be an excellent stimulus for personal and professional growth. You just a little, and that means we need to move forward, to strive, to achieve, to grow and develop. Direct greed in a constructive way, and one day, looking at the path, you finally feel the satisfaction...


Most likely not for long. To replace him will come again this greed to life, and you move forward. Because the world is such a huge under be your excellent appetites.






Author:

Pechorin D.


Source:

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