The mother is the closest person for the baby. But the child is not less necessary assertive, active, energetic "male" games, running around, mess, screaming and laughing. This will enrich the experience of crumbs, will give it a totally new experience and impressions.Rails, rails...
For the mental and physical health for a person of any age need physical contact with other people. If an adult to take the opportunity to somehow communicate with the outside world and receive from him all kinds of feelings, it will lead to serious illness of his psyche. So wearing your baby on his hands, hugs, kisses, massage, gentle stroking, pinching and slapping, all kinds of finger games and games on the back burner - it's not just fun or a way to Express my baby my love, it is also necessary for the child's way of getting all sorts of tactile sensations. And the younger the baby, the more touches he needs.
Of course, during the day the mother touches the baby repeatedly. But dad, it makes quite differently! Dad the other fingers, the skin on the other hand, even touching different from mom's. Means, communicating with the dad, the kid gets a lot of new tactile experiences that help him develop better. And what is the best tactile game? Of course, gay massage! Dad might enjoy tickle and pinch the child under a funny poem. It will crumbs a storm of positive emotions. And later he will be able to do the same massage to the Pope. Perhaps it will even become a Sunday morning ritual.
So, tell the old, old poem and make the appropriate massage movements on a child's back:
Rails, rails,
(Draw with your fingers on the back of the longitudinal rails.)
Sleepers sleepers.
(Draw a transverse line sleepers.)
Rode the train is late.
(Run fingers across the back.)
From the last window
Suddenly showered peas.
(Knock fingers on his back, as if pouring peas.)
Come Kura: picked it up, picked it up...
("Clues" fingers.)
Came geese: pinched, pinched...
(Pinch the back.)
Came the elephant trod, trod,
(Hover Cams.)
Came the elephant: trod, trod,
(Swarm, but not so much.)
Came the elephant: ran and ran.
("Run" on the back of the fingers.)
Came janitor: all swept, swept all.
(Patting the back.)
Put a chair, a table, a typewriter
("Put" Desk and chair four fingers.)
And began to type:
("Printable".)
"My dear daughter! " Whack-point, whack-point.
(On the word "whack" hold lightly with your fingers on the sides of the baby.)
"I bought you the stockings." Whack-point, whack-point.
He sealed the letter, sealed and sent.
(Set "print".)
The letter was flying Oh flying about, flew-flew...
(Patting the back, showing how flew letter.)
And flew!
(Pop a little kid on the butt or double elastic band shorts.)
If your baby requires a "continuation of the Banquet," try to write to each other on the back toy cars. It's just an amazing fun, which I love to indulge in Sunday morning a huge number of dads and their little sons and even little daughters!
And in the end will bring them to their knees, press lightly with your finger on the snub nose and say:
- PI-and-and-and-p! Masha (Misha, Dima... ) at home?
- Home!
And the accordion ready?
- Ready!
And you can play?
- It is possible!
After this answer, begin to tickle the baby, as if slide your fingers across the keys of the accordion. All completed screaming with laughter and fun mess.
Heap-small
Continuing the conversation about tactile sensations I want to remember another indispensable the game I love to play daddy with her babies. It's a fun romp, which can take the form of "heap-small" comic wrestling, Boxing and t.n. It is difficult to say why such games often play the dad, not mom. Perhaps tired moms just don't have the strength, or maybe dad's easier to get back from the state of adulthood in his childhood. But, whatever the reason, playing dad comes very wisely. In one fell swoop he kills several Zaitsev. Spends time with the baby, and both incredibly fun! This time. Plays very useful in the game, which brings him closer to the child, makes adult-parent relationships more harmonious, trusting. After all, any bodily contact psychologically associated with trust. This two. And for the Pope the benefit is huge: nervous tension, physical and mental fatigue, restores emotional balance. What happens is that we often call one succinct word "discharge". All of us sometimes it is useful to break free from the usual role of a parent and the responsible officer, to have a rest from mental work, and any restrictions that we have to bind themselves, and to return to a time in childhood, feeling the connection with the past. This three. And what about the baby? That, in addition to fun, carries the game romp?
With these games, the baby learns to control his body, trying to realize their motor capabilities, to meet new and a variety of tactile sensations. What if be able to wriggle along on smooth parquet? And if you lie on the fluffy carpet? What's the first thing will make any decent toddler, going for a walk in the snowy yard? Properly, I will try to swastica in snow from head to toe. And crawling on all fours in the grass, and burying in the sand on a hot beach - all this is a new tactile experience. In addition, the baby learns to define the boundaries of my body are dealt with space, to see where the top and bottom, right side and left. In turn, the ability to navigate in space is closely connected with the development of thought and speech. Here goes: the game is simple, but the importance is huge!
Such games usually occur spontaneously and have no story: just running after each other and loveski", romp on the floor or on the bed, tickling or comic fighting, shrieking and laughing. But you can play by the rules. For example, using the usual fun that every child company is called differently: "cat and mouse", "houses", etc., Pope in the role of a cat sleeping on the couch, and the kid runs around and raznitsa. But the cat woke up, and the little mouse must quickly hide in the chair-house. If the cat is not caught, the game starts again. If caught - here, the mouse, look out! Now you will "eat", pinching and tickling. One condition: these games better not start before going to sleep. After the baby need some time to calm down. Better then to lie down together, talk about something pleasant or read a relaxing book.
We played papolos
A. Usachev there is a wonderful poem "Papolos":
We played papolos,
In the fastest papolos,
In the best papows:
I drove, and my father was lucky.
For a long time he didn't agree,
Didn't want to " puff " seriously,
And then I went -
And drove and drove!
Hit the rack, dropped the chair.
Became us in the apartment closely...
And then the heroes of the poem "visited different countries, looked white light" and even going in next weekend to bring your mother and go to the moon.
Yes, only the Pope know how to play! Only the dads sometimes wakes up such a wild imagination, and imagination. And then it can happen anywhere: finding treasure right in the apartment, and the journey on a raft on a stormy sea, and the battle with the sea pirates. But all this will be when the baby is a little older. And while great joy and Papoose", and the little passenger will deliver all sorts of games on my knees, "horses" on daddy's shoulders and other fun with jumps.
You can play, for example. Dad puts the baby in her lap, flipping it up, rocking from side to side, saying:
Went nuts on a barrel, cask,
On a flat track,
Over bumps, the bumps,
The gullies, ravines,
On potholes, bumps,
High-on-fetter hill,
In a hole Buch!
On the last words his knees apart, and the kid with laughter falling into a hole. Of course, we need to hold the handles. And riding on my dad-"horse" is still developing the game. Sitting on daddy's shoulders, the kid gets more review, sees a familiar room in a brand-new, unusual angles, which gives him food for thought. In addition, for the baby - it's kind of lesson fun exercises that help develop agility, coordination, learn to control your body. After all the crumbs on father's strong shoulders are not very stable. Therefore, a small rider makes efforts to keep his balance. As for the Pope - this is a great opportunity to talk with the kid, bring him joy and pleasure.
Patty cake, Patty cake...
Do you think that the games with the baby in the "horned Goat" and other "Patty cake" - a lot of grandmothers and mothers? Wrong! The Pope would also be happy to entertain crumbs similar games. Moreover, it is not always possible to accurately answer the question: who rejoices more - the baby or the dad? But if you play "the goat," which "Gore-Gore", know how, virtually all of the Pope, the other playing with fingers and palms they often are not familiar. The output is simple. Daddy need these games to teach. Play several times in "Ladushki", "Jay-crow" or something puppet game all together, and the next time the Pope himself will clap with your son or daughter in your hands or bend tiny fingers.
And here's a great game-rhyme for the fingers. Tell baby potesse and bend all fingers first on one hand and then on the other:
Who lives in the village?
Couch potato red cat,
The little calf,
Little yellow chick,
White sheep,
Mouse under the porch!
One, two, three, four, five
They are not difficult to count!
Who in the little lives?
In a dark mink - grey mole,
Under the Bush - hare
In spruce forest elk,
Over the hill - Fox,
On a pine - Sinikka!
One, two, three, four, five
Will the fingers to bend!
(I. Gurin)
At first, dad would play with the baby. And a little later the baby will learn the rhyme and will bend their tiny fingers big daddy's fingers. Very touching picture!
Play cars
Here's what else you can play with my dad, so this machine! Moms don't know how to play this game, although I try. And dad will be able to think of many different stories for games, racing from one wall of the room to the other, and construction of garages, bridges and tunnels made of cubes, chairs and cushions and even figure out how to open home this garage.
But the kid will be interesting not only to play the machines, but also to turn in the car. The kid picks up a toy steering wheel and dad takes the command: "forward", "reverse", "faster", "slower", "stop", "signal", etc., the Noise of the motor must correspond to the size of the machine. Big machine hums loudly, a little softer. Trying to imitate the sounds of the motor and beeps of different machines, toddler thereby will train their articulatory apparatus.
Even just to look at cars with my dad very interesting. Dad can tell your son or daughter, what is the name of each part of the machine and what it will do. Cars can be sorted by color and size. Storm the glee of a kid playing in the train. And never mind that the room will turn into a train station. First play, and then together will take care of the cleaning. So, build a train from chairs and stools, seat in the cars toys and seated themselves. The kid behind the driver. Tu-Tu, chuh-chuh-chuh! Go!
The third call. Don-don-don!
Passengers, cats and dolls in the car!
Goodbye, write!
Flap your scarves!!
Machinist, whistle!
The locomotive, puhti:
Chah-tah!
Went-went...
(C. Black)
Funny arounds
And not to make us ridiculous competitions? It is funny, because serious competition is not good for the baby. He still can not with dignity to lose. And if the Pope is always going to be something better than he will get upset. That's why we play not for the sake of winning, but just for fun. And, of course, for good. Because any such exercise is the training of motor skills, coordination, eyesight, dexterity.
So, the first contest. Put on the floor a bottle or jar with a wide neck, give each player 10 peas or beans. The task of the player is standing at full height over the bottle, throw a pea one down, trying to throw them in a bottle. Who will make this precise: the dad or the kid?
The second contest: placed at some distance from a small cardboard box or other suitable container and throw it clothespins.
The third contest: Frisbee. We denote the space on the floor, spread the towel. Try to throw a disposable paper or plastic plate so that it landed exactly on the towel.
And finally, the fourth contest: running spiders. Show your baby how in a matter of seconds to turn into a spider: sit on the floor, lean on the floor with his hands behind his back, lift yourself off the hands and feet and... run! First forward and then back. And then teach the child to walk on his hands, holding his feet.
Fun
Perhaps father will not be too interested in picking up with the baby pyramid or pick up liners to framework. But to play with the baby in the ball dad will hardly refuse. Variants of these games a lot. You can sit with your baby in front of each other and roll the ball to each other. You can learn to throw and catch the ball with his hands. The ability to throw the ball is an important skill. Please note the child that throw the ball in different ways: from the head, chest, bottom-up, two hands, only the left or only the right. Gradually master all the methods and improve them. It is equally important to teach the child to catch the ball. Start with small distances, almost putting the ball in the hands of the crumbs, then increase the distance. It is important to find a suitable ball. It must be large enough, but light. Good bit deflated beach ball, baby, it will be convenient to catch and hold the handles. And it is possible to play football. Like this game, not only boys. The girls also will take a lot of pleasure to push the ball to the joy Pape. This exercise develops coordination and sense of balance. And the gates will then be daddy's legs and feet toddler.
First kid scores the ball in daddy gate, and then the baby plays the role of the gate. As the gate, you can use a chair or stool or put the gate of the dice. Still interesting to play in an impromptu basketball, trying to get a ball in standing on the floor or on the couch cardboard box. But what if you build with blocks figures like towns and shoot down small ball? Moreover, the ball can roll and throw. This game trains coordinated vision and hands, develops gross and fine motor skills and satisfies characteristic of most kids thirst "destruction". Then, the new houses of bricks to build. Together with the Pope, of course.
Balloons like all kids. And the game these balls together with the Pope volleyball - that's fun so fun! You only need to inflate a pair of balls and stretching a rope between two chairs. Now dad and baby sit on different sides of the improvised "grid" and throw through her balloon. Kids can ball catch, but the kids are older..let them learn to fight back.
Try to play with the baby in the game that each of us knows called "thimbles". But, unlike the Scam, we are not going to do anything wrong, but just petronium the ability of the child to solve the problem and portwise visual-motor coordination, attention, memory. For the game we will need three colored circles or small bowls. The eyes of kid hide under one of the bowls cookies, candy, an Apple or a small toy. Then begin to move the bowl in a circle. Will the baby after your manipulation to figure out where the hidden object? If you guessed, biscuits you can eat (and don't forget to share it with my dad), and toy play. If the kid can easily handle the job, try to take the bowls of the same color. Will the baby now remember the bowl, under which a crafty dad hid the cookies?
For the tiny tots will find this fun. While the mother is busy, dad can help the baby to become better acquainted with the objects that are in the apartment. Take your baby and say, "Now we will run with you to the couch. Ran, ran! " Go to the couch and say, "Ran! Here is the sofa! " Now run to the TV, the refrigerator, the kitchen, the bathroom, to mom, to cat, to watch, in a word everything that exist in the apartment worthwhile. This game will not only amuse the baby, but will also help you to learn many new words. The main thing - pronounce words clearly, making expressive movement with his lips.
And another cool if dad and baby will find some his special, exclusive game and will play it from time to time. For a child such moments spent with family and loved one will be remembered for a lifetime. And will become a cause for pride: here it is, my dad! He can do anything!
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