Why men forget about the holidays

Your favorite didn't notice that Sunday was your anniversary? Don't worry: according to statistics, so does most men. But not out of malice! They say that they have to do this at least three reasons.


To justify all the male part of the population came from the website AskMen.com. For a long time he collected the men's answers to the question "Why did you forget about the Day of St. Valentine? " and eventually formulated three main reasons. Now they must learn every woman!





1. "Nobody told us about the holiday! "


In anticipation of the holiday, all women are only doing what they say about the upcoming event: they discuss the gifts and menus, make plans and compose the scenarios, being truly confident men do the same thing. However, this is a huge mistake! Rarely in some male company comes to talking about the upcoming holiday, and all because men simply don't remember about it. About the world Cup they will not forget, because the environment is constantly talking about it, and holidays in the top 10 topics for discussion is not included, so about it and don't remember.




Men generally casually refer to different kinds of dates that are important for women. So the only way to draw attention to the approaching holiday to say about it directly. It is much better than three weeks to sulk and not talk.





2. "We are tired of courtship"


In the early stages of a relationship men are tripping over themselves to conquer the girl presented with surprises, behave incredibly romantic and promise that it will always be so. However they (by their own admission) solely out of fear that some other Lovelace will peredelaet and, accordingly, will attract your favorite lady. This forces them during courtship to wear a mask suave Casanova, the whole point of life is to give this girl an orgasm by all available means.




When the girl conquered and already on a regular basis preparing family dinners, the need for romantic exploits disappears. A man in a hurry immediately take advantage of this and taking an active break from uncommon for her knight behavior.





3. "We are torn by contradictions"


The phrase male hears most often? Correctly - "Be a man! " The concept is incredibly loose, but it necessarily includes clauses prohibiting sentimentality: you cannot cry, cannot rapidly to Express their emotions, not to show their feelings.




Consequently, holidays in contradiction with the rules learned in early childhood: these days prescribed to melt from tenderness, and therefore be contrary to the code of conduct of this man. On the other hand, my girlfriend needs attention, and to ignore this is also impossible. In order not to lose his mind from complex inferences, the man prefers to simply ignore the holiday. And this task he usually handles great.

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Wday.ru

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