The return of the prodigal husband

Numerous polls show: abandoned wives often concerned with three simple questions. "Why did he go? ""Like him there? " and "will He be back? ".


We will try to answer these most important questions with the help of psychologists-practitioners.


"Why did he go? "



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Most likely because that was such an emotional map.



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Sane and sober memory husbands from wives gone very, very rarely literally be counted on one hand.



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Men are not inclined to exaggerate the importance of sudden passion or a fabulous sex on the side, as it is peculiar to women, they are always aware that the wife and the mother of my children is eternal and lover - temporarily.



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But! Family scandal, careless phrase boring spouses, family provocation - all could be the last straw, which inspire a man to care.



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Conclusion: solve their problems peacefully, quietly, at the negotiating table, with a thorough elucidation of the relationship and placement of the dots on the "i". Then you will be able to avoid hasty and emotional decisions. Both.



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"How is it there? "



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Probably worse than he expected. And worse than you. The thing is that the young mistress (and it is to such men often and go) are not ready to build with this delightful man supove-shirt relations.



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That is, theoretically, they really want this, but in practice rarely do it.



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They are still waiting on their paws extravaganza and celebration, and the man - he habitually looks for a family.



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Conclusion: not asterite, do not weep, do not weep and do not break your life. Want to wait calmly and with dignity wait, don't want to start a new life. No man in the world not worth it killed such a gorgeous woman like you.



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"He'll come back? "



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In 75% of cases - Yes. At least make an attempt.



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Because neither the strength nor the time to re-build a huge building called "family" he has not.



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No young spirit, with whom he had once overcome common challenges, growing children and built a shared apartment.



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Conclusion: note that this case is a clear position, take you back galaxee happiness or not. In order not to be caught unawares.



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In fact, psychologists are advised in any case not to hurry and not to arrange the return of the prodigal husband's simple and elegant placement of his Slippers.



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Let again caring for you, obyazivaet children and your mother wears flowers and gifts, kneels and makes an offer.



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And then you think: whether to speak to him, "Yes."

Source:

Belarusian women's portal

women's web magazine