"Macho Prime time", he does not go beyond platitudes or cynicism. And given his work as if the possibility is endless. Meeting with Ivan stars, trying with joy and appetite to build your own life.
In the editorial he appeared not in the TV image of the Joker and Joker, who at any time, in any situation and any company are able a pair of ironic jokes instantly cheer up everyone. And this is understandable: our survey were more dacninae winter morning, gloomy and not particularly cheerful. Favorite country, the most popular leading entertainment television, festivals and corporate events, radiant and sparkling hero screen, outdoor and touching Ivan Urgant got out of the car rather harsh to the weather, the Thunderer tall.
It has no notorious star, or deliberate desire to "light", to charm and amuse. He is polite, correct and very attentive to the words that say his interlocutors, and even more so to the fact that every time replying, carefully chooses himself. Jokes aside - actually Ivan Urgant in life able to talk right, just, seriously. Almost embarrassed - maybe just a little bit - own sincerity, in conversation constantly thinking, checking and listening to themselves. Maybe this attention, in this inner hearing is a guarantee of true wit, such desirable for all and such a rare gift of sharp words?
"Vulgarity is an attempt to give something unreal for the real. For me it stands next to the word "lie".
- You work in a risky genre, where the line between wit and vulgarity very thin. What, in your opinion, vulgarity and how do you manage to avoid it?
Difficult to say... These criteria somewhere inside. I think one of the manifestations of vulgarity is too serious to talk about it. Say a curse word in a public place and in the presence of children is not a platitude, but just rudeness and vulgarity. In my opinion, vulgarity another in an attempt to give something unreal for the real. In my internal dictionary this word is next to the word "lie". When people lie, especially when high, shrill thoughts and feelings are replaced, that is, in my opinion, vulgarity. I don't like and when is tremendous sincerity. It can also be a sign of vulgarity. There are people who break the chest, pull out your heart and hand it to the audience, and understand that anything above this can not be. And the other does the same, but it is unbelievable absurdity and insincerity, it is nothing calls.
In other words, the important measure?
- It is important to listen to yourself, to be with him in harmony, or at least in agreement. But I can't say I trust all to yourself. I'd rather people doubting, distrustful, " itself.
- Your path to success was not smooth. How do you cope with difficult situations, unpleasant?
Of course, there were moments when I needed support... (he Picks up words.) When exhausted youthful soul suffered, for example, from unrequited love or... from undivided food, salaries! In my opinion, the best way to escape from it in any case. And worst of all, when you withdraw into yourself. The world narrows to the size of the troubles or problems which plunges you into despair, in the enclosed space of their own feelings. And the main thing is to remind yourself that the next exit. We must try. It should only take some effort, and all will be different. Although in this situation often forget about it. Or himself not hear.
You never thought to look for some answers in psychotherapy?
In our hard reality psychotherapists are our loved ones. And sometimes distant people. Trust between people I have not seen in Western Europe or North America. We are able to pour out his heart to a stranger even regardless of whether it wants to or not. Most often this happens - as it has been in my life - not from a desire to be heard, and to just talk. And it's getting easier. Unfortunately, not always there are people who can give good advice. Hence the enormous number of publications with photos of men and women who gladly stretched hand... where is the crystal ball, the people who need to have someone to talk. Personally I would not go to any Holy healer Aksinya. Probably because you believe in God... Better somehow on their own. You must try.
This is the position of an adult. You will sooner has matured?
- Early enough. My mother raised my own child. I already six years old went one - first in kindergarten, then school. I was left to sit with the younger sisters, but I didn't take it as a duty. Mom spent a lot of time to our upbringing and has not shifted the burden of responsibility on my fragile shoulders.
"The maximum degree of freedom is only madmen. I want to be dependent on someone. and to that someone depended on me".
- What are you today, grateful for her the most?
- For your patience. I would here myself long ago killed, and the mother passed this difficult test to see next to a loud, angry and arrogant whiskered boy in a long time. I have much less patience. I know: my mom has kept a unique document - the diary that she kept while I was little, with six months to five years. This brief diary, which was placed in two notebooks. When I turned 18, my mom showed them to me. Reading this was very touching. This is the same piercing poignancy that was not touched by no vulgarity. Because my mother wrote in her diary only what she felt. And then. It is important is when you provide the ability to make decisions. When you feel the person from which something depends. I felt it very early, at the age of eight or nine. However, not always I wanted this freedom. Rather, I wanted to be a child who just surrounded by care and devoid need something to solve it. I do a lot of these children saw around himself. And me such an opportunity mom gave. She insisted that any problems, awkward situations, which are usually all the children, I overcame himself. In some ways it helped that it was advised, but never insisted and made me.
- Today you are a parent. What do you most want for your daughter?
- I won't be original here. To my daughter as soon as possible became an independent person and to her life as little as possible needed the help of others. So she had no power to depend on nobody. From parents including. So she was a good person. And a smart man.
- Dependence on something you generally unacceptable?
"We are all in varying degrees from something dependent. Maximum freedom of madmen. And not all such freedom is necessary. No, I want to be dependent on someone. And to that someone depended on me.
When you understand what kind of family you want to create for yourself?
In my childhood I did not have a clear sense of family. Parents separated when you were too young, and me and the year then barely. Because years to 13 I had no idea how were born, mom and dad together for me was not contacted. But I had a grandfather, grandmother, another grandmother and great-grandmother. I could go back and forth, while my buddies lived in their apartments with mom and dad. And that's all. I even liked to be not like everyone else. Not at all to others, but a little bit. Probably, the desire to stand out was for me and the engine in the profession, and how my life at the moment.
"A sense of humor - when it is not kidding himself, and when you laugh. And you should try it in yourself to develop. It helps! "
"But it's pretty early wanted to create family - traditional, "like everyone else": one house, husband, wife, child...
You know, I early learned that I love children. And I want to own a home.
- How do you see it in the future?
- I don't like to make far-reaching plans. It's strange for me to imagine yourself tied in a blanket, sitting by the fireplace. unable to move. And grandchildren, playing with my feet, standing alone near! I can't imagine. But the family home is, of course, a big house. Moreover, in the truest sense of the big. Because I was the first half of his life he lived very closely. The only thing that was great in our apartment, the ceiling height. Yes. The family is when children with a loving and faithful wife. And with some. a reasonable number of neat, clean, well-washed pet. who know exactly where their toilet. A very important condition! This is definitely a small number of devotees you friends. And a large number of friends and acquaintances. Who come to visit and have an opportunity at a large round table under a shade in between tasty your hands specialties to discuss the fate of Russia...
- Exactly as you describe!
- As someone who only yesterday I hung a lampshade on the round table.
- The rest is talent, health, youth, success, money - you already have. It pleases you?
- I'm afraid frequent thoughts about what I have and what not. Because of many things I once wasn't enough... you Know, it is very important that everything in life was there in time. That is when you need it. I can't complain that there is in my life. But I try not to think about it often. Suddenly time - and all this to be real! I remember, as I do not have enough money, is a very acute sense.
- What would you do if tomorrow you do not?"
I'll be looking for all possible ways, so that they at least to some extent, but again appeared in my family. This component of comfort, well-being. Money is needed to not think. Because, while there was no money, all the time I thought about them. Was waiting for it appears? Not that dream what you want to realize everything was on the level of need. Now I understand that my earnings depends the welfare of my family, my children, relatives... it's not up to the fantasy in the style of "find me on the island and under the palm tree"!
- Ads removed-known artists, sometimes makes us, the audience, the feeling of embarrassment, awkwardness. You at any clip look organically...
I would disagree with you, because advertising is part of our profession. Humiliating, perhaps, when you realize that the person was forced on these shooting to go, he had no other choice. But on the other hand, he does his job. Artists years to create the reputation, name, and the time will come when their image, appearance and love of the audience legally must pay dividends.
- That is all that you do for the money, do with pleasure?
- Yes, only the degree of pleasure is different. But still it wasn't like I was doing something for money with obvious displeasure. Except work as a loader in the 11th grade. Today I refuse to weight sentences. But don't refuse, I try to participate not only as a performer but also as co-author. Try to have me view the finished product at least a couple of times brought joy. Or at least did not cause feelings of rejection and bitterness in the mouth.
- We know that we often use humor as a shield from different life challenges...
- Exactly! Moreover, I insist: the humor and levity, irony and laughter is the best defense and medicine. Not only will protect the irony, but... you must try! It helps. I sympathize with those who do not like to laugh, don't like it when joking. Sense of humor - it's not when the joke itself, and when you laugh. And it should be trying to develop. Now sit four times with a stone face at concerts Zhvanetsky. Look at the fifth will begin to smile - even in familiar places!
- It is generally accepted that artists are people who are especially in need of love and recognition of others. You to myself so I can say?
- Of course! I would say to anyone of any profession, and the public especially, need confirmation that he is doing something right. At least going in the right direction. And doing something that brings joy and pleasure not only to him but to someone else.
- This emotional engagement - a sense of gratitude and love in response to your work is enough?
You know, several times in my life when I spoke the words, which I, in my opinion, still not deserve. And I was very pleased. People were saying, which I respect and professionalism which I have no doubt. It seems to me that in these words there is a sort of advance, would like to meet them.
This month the theme of our "Dossier" - "changing men". In your opinion, how?
Nothing changes, must not change! The man and the woman of today the same as yesterday. Not the lack of masculinity to write, say, an incredible development of technologies or plastic surgery. Real men always had a little, I think.
- What do they lack?
- The degree of sincerity, honesty is what is missing. Many men nowadays have become not only look and dress like women, but to behave sometimes it is not manly. You know, to check how the brave men live in the country, it is not necessary to get involved in world war III. The man does not necessarily break on his head brick or fix the kitchen faucet. But in how he relates to women, children, family, parents - this is the man. The perfect hero created Director Vladimir Menshov in the film "Moscow does not believe in tears", and was performed by Alexey Batalov. In our country this way at all times. Although, in my opinion, such people don't exist. Intelligent men who work as mechanics and monitor the purity of footwear. Ready to tie the fate of a woman with a child and can, if necessary, to go into the bout from the senses. before that, fry the kebabs and protecting young lover girl from bullies. There are none! But I think if each of us will have at least one thing from this list to do it-good. (Insinuating.For example, to go into the bout.
- You seem to lead a healthy lifestyle...
- (With some annoyance.) I can't comment, because drinking, and Smoking, and swearing. But so imperceptibly that we all have the feeling that I do not. I find that strange... and not to do at an early age and in excessive amounts. But there are people that are so exquisitely drink and so delicious smoke that immediately want to do the same! And masterly use of swear words sometimes paints our life inimitable tone. Now all this is put in the space covered by the round table under the shade - and you will understand what I mean.
- So you try to live with appetite?
"I'm trying to imagine it to cultivate to get pleasure from life. Not frills case. You can have fun in the Studio or shared apartment. Smoke in the kitchen, Smoking an unfiltered cigarette, sipped her cheap red wine, but so that you will enjoy, and surrounding you... Moldovan workers too!
- You once said you should try to always be ready, that will throw you destiny. Why would you want to it still threw?
- Knowing that the services are responsible for what throws us a destiny, a regular reader of your magazine, I would like to contact him directly. Surprise me! I love pleasant surprises.
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