Sex is not a toy. Played for a while, got tired and gave it up. No, no and no again. Psychoanalysts warn that sex is serious business! There are no trifles, trifles.The most serious error is to treat sex as a habit. Habit kills desire!
As is often the case. There are no forces and the mood is wrong, not like before, during the first proximity and fiery touch. Erotic fun with his second half becomes boring.
How to combine sex and seductiveness with the daily chores, the everyday life, damn it? That is the question.
All these fears and horrors await even the most loving couple. Easy carelessly thrown the word, the wrong gesture, remark cause irritation response. And irritation then grows like a snowball.
And that's painfully familiar situation: he grumbles, she hides behind a veil of condemnation silence. And further more: "You think to go in this form? ". And this is after she proudly showed just bought the dress pinned so much hope.
Provocative behavior hardest heart hurts and makes you pay the same coin. Revenge begets revenge. And now the couple is not a couple of cooing doves, and the demons of vengeance. Family boat has crashed!
However, aggressive word, irritability themselves are not negative, aggression is not extended to mental injury, if the time to spohvatilsya and stop. It is only necessary to try to understand the causes of anger, aggression, and in any case not to retaliate.
Banal in its simplicity shopping can suddenly become a pretext for a new approach, flirting, flirting. A cozy darkness and dressing boutique to push the space and the limits of the possible and impossible.
And now the recent dress, which asserted the right man be ashamed even to go to the neighbor for matches, is transformed into a discreet erotic fetish. What if this same dress to try a little tease of the same neighbor, as soon as he came into use". Or to have a little fashion show in the boutique, or unexpectedly to ask the seller is a man, how it looks sexy. To be jealous husband, interrupting a series of vindictive meanness and Podolak.
And in the evening... just should not be available as before. The man - hunter. He has to hunt to earn their prey. You cannot weaken his hunting instinct! Then, when the waiting will be very exciting and will make you tremble all particles of the body, then consider that the routine of the damage.
But to win it is impossible anyway. Still have the farm, the kitchen...But! Yes, the kitchen is the usual place of Housewives. But...not everyone knows how this place is perfect for erotic games. Here Eros can be soaked everything: joint cooking dinner, setting plates, inhaling aromas, not to mention the dishes and candles. You can "accidentally" forget about spoons and forks, and their joint search in the bottom drawer low tables, a fun fantasy about vydumyvanie synonyms for "cups", "forks and other utensils will be a powerful prelude. What can be sensual washing and wiping dishes! Flushed face, drops of sweat, unbuttoned the collar of the shirt, whipped foam. Wasting no time, you can kiss, to be close and feel the sensuality of the moment.
Or your last light quarrel turns into a little game of "who-whom". Then Eros is powered gentle fights and puzzles.
In any case, in everyday life need to be protected from its provocations. For example, your favorite, pulling out of the closet a clean shirt, and grumbling: "I don't understand why you can't ironed shirt, as my mother". Of course, boiling rage and wants to throw something like: can you show how did your mother? Actually, he just wants to know how much you value it. And the answer your need to be relevant. Of course, if the shirt is really smooth, and not thrown in the jammed directly in the Cabinet. And if his judgement is ironic, to meet the need of something soothing.
Or so he came apart and doesn't want to talk. This is his manner of hurt, because the woman always tries to force the partner to speak, to establish a dialogue. But if not you consider yourself to be among those who in any detail accustomed to quarrel, let him feel that he is in the spotlight. In response to his taunts, you can make something delicious. Irritation extinguished care and attention. But not Intrusive, and soft.
And, of course, love. In all its manifestations. The spark of fire may re-ignite any juicy detail, such, for example, as a reminder, thrown by chance: and I remember when I was in the boutique and tried on a dress, and you've come to see how it is sitting on me...etc...
And yet.
If, after your many caustic remarks on the theme "why don't you give me flowers," he finally one day is with a bouquet of roses, no need to wring your hands and moan, saying it is a gift under duress.
The rose is a symbol of love. Enduring love, which is without end and without edge. And you are the most beautiful and the most desirable woman.
The woman of his dreams, which he is and will be for a long time to go - all my life!
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