From the false to the present: how to get an orgasm?

You are used to simulate an orgasm? Nothing wrong: probably each of us at least once this has sinned. If you are tired of pretending - it's perfect! So, you are ready emotionally and sexually intimate with a partner so that you start to experience the real pleasure of sex.



How to get a real orgasm?


Frank conversation. The most difficult part of the task - a Frank conversation with your partner. To confess a lie (and especially) is not easy, but absolutely necessary if you want to get an orgasm constantly, not just once a year on holidays, when he happened to guess how you want to caress.




Build a conversation most sincerely and politely. Tell me why you had faked the orgasm (if simulated). Man must understand that you lied to him not to laugh at him. Most likely intentions you had the most good. For example, you were afraid to offend him or was afraid to disappoint.




Usually we simulated an orgasm only to those who we really like and who we want to produce the best impression in the bed. You can say, "I'm telling you this because now I feel so close to you and is attracted to you that I didn't want to pretend. I feel that I can get you an orgasm for real. You're going to help me? ".




The change in policy. Admitted, in any case not go back to the simulation. Even if you will to try and the first time you will not be able to get an orgasm! Say to yourself and loved: all right, this is a natural process of lapping. Practice, practice and more practice will help to achieve the result.




Sex Navigator. After a Frank recognition of the man you want to give a tip. He is slightly confused: I tried as best they could, but she was not finished, and what do I do now? Tell me him! And even better show, because you know what helps you to get an orgasm during Masturbation!




And remember, men need to be encouraged. When he does something right, don't skimp on the words or sounds of approval.





To get an orgasm: what contributes to it?


The theatre of one actor. It's hard to feel like a Guinea pig on a laboratory table. And it feels so girl, when a man tries first to bring it to a real orgasm and sensitively monitors all her reactions, groans, grimaces. Girls imitating an orgasm, he used to play on the audience. But it's terribly annoying and distracts from the enjoyment of the process. Therefore try to do it in the dark or at least in such a position that he had not seen your face. You will relax and stop posing, thereby significantly increasing their chances to get an orgasm.




Who will finish first? Seek not necessarily have to finish first or simultaneously with the man during sex. It is sometimes too difficult. It's much easier to let him cum, and then, satisfied and inspired, man will be able to deal with you and help you to get an orgasm.




Many girls it is hard to finish because during sex and foreplay they think more about the pleasure of the partner, than about her. That is why, first bringing pleasure to him, you can then with a sense of accomplishment to relax and get orgasm itself.

Author:

In Isaev


Source:

WomanJournal.ru

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