The woman is given the right to decide with whom to be and whether to seek a real sense. Where did this strange division - love and sex.More recently, according to one of the commandments of the revolutionary proletariat, sexual selection should be carried out along the line of proletarian feasibility. Today, the woman is given the right to decide with whom to be and whether to seek a real sense.
Where did this strange division - love and sex, and why we believe that men and women view this issue differently?
My only
In sense - for one night. This can happen with any of us: just the party was a success, tall blond man in dark glasses was extremely helpful, you're a little drunk... And in the morning you came to your senses and was troubled: now, what's he going to think? After an awkward goodbye and polite exchange of phones you leave the bed as quickly as it had appeared in it, knowing that I will never see. But alone acknowledge that all things were going well.
But if the new friend turned out to be a suitable lover, what prevents you to check what would have been your relationship - own insecurities and attempts to cater to the stereotype of the "decent girls don't do that"? It turns out that one sex as in itself - not so much sense and practical use. Just because you don't give him the chance to become something more.
You call
Another common type of "sex without love" is the code name of "we're just lovers." You meet with a different frequency, and it can last months and years. In bed you are satisfied, but to be the constant companion you do not consider. Or he you. In General, "no love".
The explanation here may be different, but they are known and do not characterize any of the parties as reasonable: he is not yet ripe for marriage (or worse, to divorce), you need a more serious, wealthy, or handsome man, you have no place to live, or other obstacles of varying degrees of overpowering.
Probably not worth it to clarify that all of these conditions are not related to the feelings that you have.
And whatever you choose to call it - love, passion or affection, it's just not just sex. Well, that none of you are unable to bring the situation under control is just an illusion and the unwillingness to admit that today the pair you have and search for something else or more of the cover in order to change anything.
Basic instinct
This expression is so entered in the active vocabulary associated with sex that we often forget that it does not mean physiological attraction and not sex per se, but procreation.
Psychotherapist, Vice-President of the Russian Association of sexologists, the author of the training "How to create and save the family" Evgeny Aleksandrovich Kulhavy says:
"By and large, choosing a partner, we, somehow, are guided by their biological strategy. Men-"the sowers" to save your genotype strive for the highest possible "pollination", it gives them the opportunity to count on the fact that someone, Yes bear a child. Reproductive potential of women is limited, so it is interested in quality "selection" comers. Relationships are a kind of "filter" that women put for "culling poor candidates, and the candidates, in turn, are trying to "pass" this test. Those who are "after" comfortable and interesting, stay, get used to it and appreciate it.
Women affection caused by the hormone Oxytocinum. Thus, male and female reproductive policies vary widely, and this explains a lot of mistakes, disappointments, trials, suffering, and highlights, attractions, tears of joy and happy hugs. We are different. And, perhaps, the good".
And while it is so good that each of us is free to choose: a great sense or good sex. Of course, in order to, eventually, get both.
Source:
Women's information and entertainment portal WDay.ru
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